John - Interview 33
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John noticed blood on his shirt but had no signs of a cut, and went to see his GP. He was quickly referred on to the hospital, and told he had cancer and would require a minor operation. The biopsy was benign. Ten years later, John noticed that the same nipple had changed shape. He saw his GP promptly and was once again referred to the hospital, where he underwent a mammography and fluid was taken from his chest. The tests showed that John had cancer and he was told he would need a major operation. John was initially stunned but accepted his diagnosis and decided that a positive approach to the cancer and treatment would be the best option. John told both of his adult daughters – one was very distressed and the other seemed to ‘take in in her stride.’ He also told his friends, and both friends and family were very supportive. Before diagnosis, John did not really know any details about breast cancer, and was the first in his family to have cancer.
John had a normal biopsy result on a breast lump which had bled several times. Ten years later,...
John had a normal biopsy result on a breast lump which had bled several times. Ten years later,...
Well the first thing I had a brush with cancer I was playing snooker at my local club and someone said to me, "You've cut yourself you've got blood on your shirt," and I thought that's odd you know. I just didn't know how I'd cut myself playing snooker and I didn't take any notice of that at all. And then 2 days after that I was playing snooker again and someone else said, "You've cut yourself, you've got blood on your shirt." I thought this can't be right because there was no cut anywhere or anything. So I went and saw my local GP and he sent me to see a doctor at the hospital. And this was on the Wednesday and on the Friday lunch time I got a phone call and the doctor said, "You're in hospital Tuesday." And I said "Well hold on a moment I've got a job you know." Then he said, "Well don't say no now," he said "because in 6 weeks time you might not be able to say anything," he said "you've got cancer." I thought this is ridiculous you know you don't think that it's going to happen to you. So I went and went into hospital and it was a very minor operation as such and after 3 months they told me its benign which was I thought terrific you know that was a let off really more than anything. So then I didn't think much of it at all. But after that about 10 years after that I noticed that my nipple was getting very disfigured on the same side I had the operation, so I've gone to the local GP again and there again I've gone to the hospital and he took, they took a sample of fluid from the chest but within 10 minutes the registrar came in the room and said, "You've got to have an operation," so he must've known before they took the sample. So that didn't take very long, I've gone into the hospital again and it was quite a large operation apparently, they didn't think it was going to be so large until they opened me up.
John was given Arimidex rather than tamoxifen after it was discovered that he had had a heart...
John was given Arimidex rather than tamoxifen after it was discovered that he had had a heart...
When did they put you on the tamoxifen?
John no longer worries about showing his body on holiday, but he had had to get his confidence back.
John no longer worries about showing his body on holiday, but he had had to get his confidence back.
But it must be horrific for a woman to have breast cancer, it must be terrible. I don't think it's as bad for a man, you can cope with it. As I said I went on holiday last year and that's the first time I've actually shown my body walking along kind of thing you know because it was a nice hot day but that's the first, I've had to get my confidence back in that respect. But I don't worry now.