Bereavement due to traumatic death
Support for children and young people
While parents are dealing with their own grief after the bereavement they are also trying to help their children, so they need to know about the various organisations that may be able to help and in what ways. Young children may deal with grief differently from adults. Quite commonly a child may switch from being very upset to wanting to go out to play as though nothing has happened. A traumatic death in the family can deeply affect young people and some become depressed themselves.
Bereavement counselling may be sought for children although some parents, like Sally, felt they could support the children themselves. When Matthew’s brother was killed in the Bali bombing the nieces and nephews, including a godson, were supported within their close family environment.
Terri recalled that after her son was murdered, her young daughters, who were aged four and eight at the time, were ‘completely traumatised’. The police family liaison officers arranged for some private counselling. Six years later, when Terri’s eldest daughter was 14, she had more counselling through the NHS.
Ann works hard to help other families bereaved through a knife crime and referred families with...
Ann works hard to help other families bereaved through a knife crime and referred families with...
After Lauren died William took his 12 year old son for a week's holiday run by Care for the...
After Lauren died William took his 12 year old son for a week's holiday run by Care for the...
People also found support for their children through local children’s bereavement organisations. A national network of such organisations is accessible via The Childhood Bereavement Network.
Last reviewed October 2015.
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