Immunisation
Messages to other parents about immunisation
A majority of parents believe in immunisation for their children. We have, however, also included here the views of parents who did not believe immunisation was right for their own child based on their personal beliefs. Their views represent a proportion of the population.
We asked the parents we interviewed what messages or advice they would give to other parents who were making decisions about their child's immunisations.
In this section are parents' messages and advice about making the decision and gathering information about immunisation.
Messages about making the decision about immunisation
When making the decision about immunisation:
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The risk from complications of the illnesses is much greater than risks from the immunisation or vaccine.
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It's natural to worry but it feels so good afterwards knowing your child is safe.
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Consider the risk to your child of not immunising.
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Remember how amazing it is that immunisation exists and what it has achieved.
- Consider your responsibility to the general public and to other children.
Remember how amazing it is that immunisation exists and what it has achieved.
Remember how amazing it is that immunisation exists and what it has achieved.
Of course it's your own decision and you have to decide what's right for your child but I think it's definitely worth it to think about the fact that immunisations really are miracles and they have decreased the death rate of all these, the rates that people get these diseases has gone down so incredibly, we are so lucky to have them because we would be facing so much more worry if we didn't have them. And so I think of course you have to decide for yourself for your own child but, but I think, you know, really immunisations are great and if you ever want to travel in developing countries, you know, that's another thing you never you, you certainly should have your children immunised then and also I think it is a matter of responsibility to the general public and to other children, that I think that should be considered as well.
The diseases are much worse than the immunisation.
The diseases are much worse than the immunisation.
It isn't pleasant you know different babies react differently to them if you're not sure then speak to the nurse before she does the injections to reassure you and don't hesitate to speak to them afterwards if the baby is fractious but it is quite normal for them to be a little bit off colour certainly after the first set. But it does only last a very short time. And it's horrible hearing your baby cry but they stop crying and they forget and I don't remember having any injections done when I was little so you do forget. But you know they need to be done because all the things they're being immunised are horrible things to have and your baby is going to be far worse if you don't immunise them than, than if you do. So not pleasant but necessary.
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Immunisation is not a decision to be taken lightly, but it has to be made.
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Don't feel pressurised into making a decision and take time to make sure that you feel happy with the decision you make.
- Gather information until you are happy with your decision
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Do what you think is best for your child.
- If you have concerns, discuss them with an expert.
Every parent should have access to a trained health professional to talk about the risks of catching the diseases being immunised against and about the benefits and potential risks of immunisation for their own child, and for the population in general.
Parents can talk to their GP, health visitor or practice nurse. There is also an immunisation advisor in each local health protection unit, whom parents can talk to about their child's immunisations.
Listen to your instincts as you are likely to be the best judge for your child.
Listen to your instincts as you are likely to be the best judge for your child.
If you have concerns about MMR, get some expert advice.
If you have concerns about MMR, get some expert advice.
I think a lot of it is definitely media hype, but I think an awful lot of people now are going back to the MMR, from what I've been talking to parents and things like that, because there is so many things that have come out of it. There is an increase in mumps, there is an increase in chicken pox, there's a huge increase of measles, and I think people are more scared of that now, than they are the MMR. And in a way I'm glad that they're going back to it because this will sort of stabilise all those things that could have been prevented in the first place. But I think if you've got any concerns about the MMR then you really need to discuss them with either your health visitor or your GP and get some expert advice on it.
You need to make sure you are informed, listen to professionals and read up.
You need to make sure you are informed, listen to professionals and read up.
Mine was not a difficult experience. Both my girls went through it fine. I mean I had the obvious anxieties like any new mum, you know, worrying and you don't want your child to go through anything, you know, they're very precious to you. But you have to do what you feel and what you think is right, because you'd never forgive yourself if you had made a wrong decision either way.I think it's a very personal thing. And you need, I think you do need to make sure you are informed and listen to what the professionals say. And if you're still in doubt make more make more time to sort of think about it further either by looking, reading on the Internet or in books or whatever. It's not a decision to be taken lightly but it's a decision that needs to be made.
Don't have your child immunised until you are happy with your decision.
Don't have your child immunised until you are happy with your decision.
I think the only advice I used to say to parents whose children I had to vaccinate because that was part of my job was that the guidelines for the ages at the eight weeks, twelve weeks, sixteen weeks and then again later on for the MMR, they are only guidelines and people often feel railroaded into the day their baby is eight weeks old they have to go and have them vaccinated. And I would say to parents if you're not sure then, then don't do it until you've read some information or you've acquired some information that makes you more sure.
Messages about gathering information about immunisation
When gathering information about immunisation:
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It is normal that parents are concerned about the optimal health of their children, and it is important that parents seek reliable scientific evidence on which to base their decisions, and there is a mass of this information available.
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Start thinking about immunisation when you are pregnant so that you can give immunisation decisions some careful consideration.
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Gather as much information as possible in order to make an informed decision.
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Don't just listen to what you hear in the media, make sure the facts you use to make your decision are based on well-researched evidence and accurate information.
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If you have concerns, talk to your GP as well as the health visitor.
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If you're not satisfied with the information you're being given, or you still have concerns, find a health professional who has time to talk to you or ask to speak to a specialist.
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Talk to other parents who have already made the decision for their own children.
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Talk to older people about their experiences before immunisation was available.
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Often, talking to a health professional provides reassurance but if you decide you want to find out more, go to the source of the information; read research articles in medical journals if possible, rather than media reports of it.
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Be open-minded: don't base your decision only on what the media or the government says.
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Try to get unbiased views; information from different sources and websites has different agendas, so try to read between the lines to get to the true information.
- Make sure you understand the risks and possible side effects of the vaccine as well as the benefits.
Get as much information as you can, don't feel pressurised by anyone else and feel happy with your decision.
Get as much information as you can, don't feel pressurised by anyone else and feel happy with your decision.
I would say, 'Try and find as much information as you can. Try and talk to as many people as you can, older people that didn't have the immunisations available to them and obviously contemporaries. And try and find a health professional who will sit and talk to you. And try and ask peoplewhat they've done. Just get as much information as you can. And don't be frightened one way or the other. If you make a decision then that's absolutely fine. You know, if you go ahead and have the injections then that's good too because you're happy with that choice. Don't feel pressurised by anyone else, you know. Feel happy with your decision'.
It can be a huge relief to talk to an expert so ask for a second opinion if you don't feel you have enough information.
It can be a huge relief to talk to an expert so ask for a second opinion if you don't feel you have enough information.
I'd say ask for a second opinion, if you're not satisfied, with the information that you're being given. Go back to your GP, if necessary, because they'll be very helpful. And if necessary ask to speak to a specialist immunologist. I had a five-minute, less than ten-minute call, with this paediatric immunologist, and it just was like a breath of fresh air. It was a huge relief because I felt I could then make the best decision that I could make, under the circumstances, being always aware that there was a risk and it actually went extremely well. So and I'm very pleased that I went ahead and actually I'm pleased that I made the decision. And I'm pleased that it went well at the hospital and that's she's now protected against those illnesses.
Talk to the community paediatrician if you have concerns.
Talk to the community paediatrician if you have concerns.
See also 'Considering the risks and benefits of immunisation'.
Last reviewed: April 2025.
Last updated: July 2013.
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