Interview 02
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This woman underwent an emergency caesarean section and stayed in the hospital for four days afterwards. She talks about having her daughter lying on her tummy after birth and feeding off and on for about an hour. She also describes the early days of initiating breastfeeding, the milk coming in, engorgement, what it feels like to breastfeed and how to remove a baby from the breast at the end of a feed. She discusses what it is like at home in the beginning including frequent feeding, short spells of sleep both day and night and setting up a safe way of handling night-time feeding. She was lucky enough to have her parents come to visit and help during the day, particularly by cooking meals and minding the baby while she (the mother) had a nap. The baby is only 15 days old but she has already been out for Sunday lunch and breastfed the baby in public. Because she has only six month's maternity leave before returning to part-time work in the airline industry, she wants to introduce a bottle of expressed milk to the baby early on, probably at about six to eight weeks. She says that this will also allow the father to experience feeding their daughter and may enable her to go out at Christmas. The importance of the father's role is covered. As a couple, they attended National Childbirth Trust (NCT) classes. They found them a good source of information and will continue to consult NCT people.
She describes ways of checking that her baby was correctly attached.
She describes ways of checking that her baby was correctly attached.
She described the first few days of breastfeeding in detail and thought that her contented baby...
She described the first few days of breastfeeding in detail and thought that her contented baby...
Okay, and were you offering both breasts at each feed?
I wasn't actually, she, she feeds for about ten minutes was her maximum to start with and then she'd just go, go down and she wouldn't want any more. I mean when she, she begin, or began to sort of not settle immediately I'd try wind her although she hasn't been a very windy baby. Recently being a whole fifteen days old she's now, you know, maybe a bit windier than she was initially but I did take her off and then put her back on the same one and that seemed to be fine. Now
Her baby was born by caesarean section and she was shown a couple of different breastfeeding...
Her baby was born by caesarean section and she was shown a couple of different breastfeeding...
I don't, not, not to me they the midwife was good and she showed me a couple of alternatives, she showed me the rugby hold which is when you put the baby round the side and it latches on so you, you're not having a baby lying across your stomach. I think maybe because Sophie's quite light and things I didn't find it, you know, a pressure really so I've, tend, I've used it a couple of times but I tended just to use the, traditional hold? I don't know what you call it, just the one where you, lying across?
The cradle hold.
Yeah the cradle hold. Just more often, just because I found that works okay for, for us but that's the only thing I found it difficult a couple of times I couldn't put her back, I lifted her out and probably a couple of times when I shouldn't have because I did feel the pain, but when you've got a crying baby you just, your immediate reaction is to sit up and, and get them. But again being in hospital for the extra couple of days meant the midwife would actually come and place her back in, in her little cot because I struggled to sit up and do that but, other than that I haven't found any difference. And actually I was talking to a friend today who also had a caesarean and she feels the same, a bit like a milk cow of just continual, continual feeding but hasn't had any sort of adverse affect on her, her sort of bonding or wanting to feed, her ability to feed, so from that point no it's not been any, any different really.