David C - Interview 12
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In his early twenties he first noticed a small lump in his breast. He squeezed it and managed to get some pus out of it. It caused no further problems for many years until 5-6 years before being diagnosed it grew again, then stopped. It did not change again for another few years until it grew to twice its original size very quickly. He then saw his GP who referred him quickly to a specialist. He was initially very frightened about his diagnosis, but was relieved it had not spread anywhere else in his body. A Macmillan nurse was very helpful and she allayed many of his fears.
David C was about 20 when he noticed a lump which he squeezed, releasing blood and pus. The lump...
David C was about 20 when he noticed a lump which he squeezed, releasing blood and pus. The lump...
It first started, oddly enough, about fifty years ago – I was twenty years old at the time, and I noticed I had a lump under my left nipple. I squeezed it and got some blood and puss out – but fifty years ago, nobody ever thought about male breast cancer. So I never thought any more about it. It hardened into a small lump, just behind the nipple, and it stayed like that for about forty odd years – as far as I can remember. And then, about five or six years ago, I’m not quite sure how long ago, it grew again, which I became a little bit concerned about – but it stopped growing. And I thought, well after forty-odd years, if that’s as much as it’ll do, it’s not worth bothering about. So just about eight months ago, it grew again overnight, and that’s when I got really worried. And I went down to the doctors the following day – and I got an appointment the following day. I was admitted to hospital about ten days later – very quickly. They had an emergency cancellation, and I got that instead, and I had a mastectomy, which was completely painless – no bother at all. Occasional, slight twinge, but over the entire period of time, I haven’t felt pain at all – there’s no problem with the pain or anything like that. Of course, I had the seroma which meant it grew up with fluid quite a lot of it, actually – a bit of a nuisance but no problem at all. I went in and got it drained. So that’s basically about as much of the story. The thing I want to get over is if you’ve, any male or female has a lump on their breast, go down, immediately, to the doctor – otherwise, if you delay it, of course, the cancer can spread.
Ok – so do you think it was more the rapidity of how much it grew overnight that shocked you into going?
Overnight. Yes, that’s what, eventually, very quickly, actually, made me think I have to go to the doctor and get this sorted out.
David C describes having a mammogram, ultrasound, and biopsy. The type of ultrasound he had...
David C describes having a mammogram, ultrasound, and biopsy. The type of ultrasound he had...
Did you have a mammogram as a test?
David had a longstanding interest in ley lines and could use divining rods. He used crystals to...
David had a longstanding interest in ley lines and could use divining rods. He used crystals to...
How do the crystals make you better?
David wouldn't have wanted to go to a breast cancer group. He thought he might 'suppress dialogue...
David wouldn't have wanted to go to a breast cancer group. He thought he might 'suppress dialogue...
When you went to the hospital, did the nurse ever offer you a chance to go to any support groups?
David chose not to tell a few men who might have a 'nasty' reaction. He was pleased when women...
David chose not to tell a few men who might have a 'nasty' reaction. He was pleased when women...
No – I have found that males just say, “oh yes,” and change the conversation. They’re either not interested or they don’t want to know. I think they’re not interested. Females are entirely different – as soon as they hear about it, they’re almost invariably horrified and interested as well too, and supportive.
Is that men and women like that?
No, no – just men, I would imagine.
And why do you think they’re like that?
Because they’re unpleasant people and they’re always trying to be nasty, and that’s one good way of being nasty. But I haven’t had anybody being nasty to me so far.
Ok – so there are some people, then, that you’ve chosen not to tell?
Em… Yes. I would say yes, uh huh.
Right. Are these men that make jokes, I mean, you’re saying they’re just very unpleasant people, but do you think they’d want to make jokes because you’re a man? You know, they would try and pull you down, take your self esteem away?
Mm hmm.
Right.
So we just don’t bother about them at all.