Interview 25
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Testicular cancer (seminoma) diagnosed in 2001; orchidectomy. No evidence of secondary tumours; one treatment of chemotherapy (only half an hour) to prevent recurrence.
Financial advisor; married, 2 children.
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Explains that delay occurred because his GP falsely reassured him that the lump was nothing to worry about.
Explains that delay occurred because his GP falsely reassured him that the lump was nothing to worry about.
It was probably about a year ago now, but I was regularly checking myself anyway due to family history of mum and dad passing on with cancer. So since they passed on I was regularly checking myself anyway. Best time to check yourself was in the bath each evening. So I was checking myself one evening in the bath and noticed there was like a hard lump in one of my testicles. It was like a hard stone-like lump, as though a stone was in the middle of your testicle. Thought not right, but I was one of these gentlemen that thought I won't do nothing about it, it'll go away sort of thing, yeah. So I left it for a couple of weeks, mentioned it to the wife and said "Look I think I've got a lump downstairs," and she said "Go to your GP and sort it out then." So eventually I did pluck up the courage to go and see the GP in September of last year. He knew the family history, knew about my mum and dad because he treated them himself and he told me there was nothing to worry about. You know "Yes there is a little bit of a lump there but don't worry about it, it's fine." So I took the doctor's word for it being that you know I trusted him. But it just didn't go away the lump, it just got, it got a little bit bigger as well as months grew on, it did get a little bit bigger. And I kept saying to the wife you know "The lump is still there, it's getting a bit bigger." And probably about 2 or 3 months before the op, in April this year, I was getting slight pains as well.
So that's 2001?
Yes, I had, I was getting quite acute pain in the testicle area as well, pain that made me double up, I felt a little bit sick as well. So that's when I said "Right I'm going back to the doctor." But I chose a different doctor in the same practice to go and see er to which he stated "I don't think you've got nothing to worry about, I think you've got a blocked urinal gland but I'll refer you on anyway." So I waited about 4 weeks, got an appointment with the specialist.
Explains what it was like to have a short session of chemotherapy to prevent cancer spread.
Explains what it was like to have a short session of chemotherapy to prevent cancer spread.
Explains the operation in detail.
Explains the operation in detail.
So that's what they did, basically made the incision across the groin, took it out. It's only about an hour and a half operation yeah, to be honest with you it was very, when I woke up after the operation it was no pain then because you're still under the anaesthetic but as soon as the anaesthetic wore off it was very painful, couldn't really move around in bed, it was hard to sleep at night, constantly on painkillers when I could have them, when they allowed me to have them. And then it was probably about another 2 days before I went home. Could've gone home the next day but I didn't want to go home because of the, having kids so young, jumping all over you and sort of welcoming you home. So I went home about 2 days after the operation and then it was basically probably about 3 weeks convalescing.
Suggests that doctors should use less technical terminology when talking to patients.
Suggests that doctors should use less technical terminology when talking to patients.
Right
It relaxes me more, just using everyday terms that I'm used to.
Explains that he developed a painful wound infection after his operation.
Explains that he developed a painful wound infection after his operation.
Yeah certainly yeah it was, I was back at home and I had a bit of a cough as well and every time I coughed it was extreme pain. I've never known pain like it to be honest with you, it was a very, very, very severe pain. And I coughed once, and my wound opened up, and it started bleeding quite a lot as well. So the district nurse came out that evening, about 1 o clock in the evening, and she said, "Oh the reason it's opened up is because you've caught an infection, who knows where from though," she said, "it could've been from the hospital, it could've been at home." So it was just a question of going on antibiotics again and cleaning the wound up. That was very painful to be honest with you, yeah, and it was quite scary as well seeing, the last thing you want to do is when you come out of the hospital and had an operation is to see all your wound open up and all blood coming out as well yeah, yeah so that was quite scary.
How long did it take to clear up?
What the infection? About 5 or 6 days roughly, yeah.
Explains that the operation to remove a testicle made no difference to his sex life.
Explains that the operation to remove a testicle made no difference to his sex life.
Good.
Yeah so nothing different at all. The wife didn't feel any different she, you know she, it wasn't as though it was going through her mind blimey my husband's only got one testicle now, is it going to be any different. So the message really is it makes no difference whatsoever to your sex life.
Oh that's good.
To be honest with you yeah, yeah. You've got to get it in your mind that although you've only one you're still the same person yeah and it's not going to affect you in any way at all.
Recalls that his telephone calls to a testicular cancer support group helped him to stop worrying.
Recalls that his telephone calls to a testicular cancer support group helped him to stop worrying.
A couple of months after the operation as well, which men might need to know about, is I did find another little lump. Wasn't sure what it was, thinking oh my God it's, you know I've got another lump in the other one now. And I spoke to this young man on the testicular help line who's been through it and he had exactly the same thing after his op, and his turned out to be a blood clot which he just took tablets for and it eventually went. Mine turned out to be what they call a varicocele which is where the vein has just got a little bit blocked, it's like a varicose vein, like people get in their legs. But speaking to him, I was completely worried beforehand, thinking oh my God I've got another lump, having spoken to him he was saying what he had, nothing to worry about, it alleviated my concerns a lot. Yeah so it's nice talking to someone who's been there and knows what you're going through, definitely.
Explains that even though he was on full pay he had some financial difficulties.
Explains that even though he was on full pay he had some financial difficulties.
When you're at home as well, and you're convalescing, and you're thinking to yourself, I want to do more things with the kids, while I'm off for 4 months I might as well do these things, but I didn't have the money to do it. I did eventually because I sold some shares, I increased my overdraft, perhaps increased my loan, but the last thing you want to worry about is finance, when you've got something like testicular cancer you don't want to have to worry about your finances. So that was a little bit of a struggle to be honest with you, yeah, but the main thing that's come out of that really, I've said to people now and the reason I've done this new job is to point out to people I've been there, I know what it's like. So if you can get some cover put in place it's definitely worthwhile yeah. Because I won't get cover now, unfortunately, because I've had testicular cancer. Certain types of insurances will not cover you at all, exclude you in the future.
Stresses that men should get to 'know' their own bodies, check themselves regularly and go to the doctor if worried.
Stresses that men should get to 'know' their own bodies, check themselves regularly and go to the doctor if worried.
But to be honest with you, a message to other men is you know your own body, the doctor can feel you but he doesn't know your own body. You can feel perhaps a bit of pain, you can feel yourself what it's like because you've been doing it, if you're checking yourself regularly and you're doing it every day, if a lump does appear you know it's going to be different.
And the main message really is to men is you know, if you're in the bath it takes you 2 minutes to check yourself if you don't want to do it yourself get the other half to do it, make it perhaps a little bit more enjoyable (laughs). But, and if, you know if you're regularly checking yourself, perhaps every day, and then if you do come across something that is slightly different you'll know then because you've been checking yourself before and you feel something is slightly odd, go straight to the GP, and to be honest with you now always ask for a referral if you're not happy with the GP's explanation to see a specialist.
Explains what it was like to have a short session of chemotherapy to prevent cancer spread.
Explains what it was like to have a short session of chemotherapy to prevent cancer spread.
They put a drip up, put a cannula into the vein, in just in your wrist actually, and put up the medication. It was a bit cold, it had just come out the fridge so, but there was no, no discomfort from the drug itself as it was being pumped in. The only discomfort I felt was towards the end of it, I suppose it took may be an hour to pump the chemotherapy through, the only discomfort I felt was from the needle in my wrist, towards the end it was starting to ache a bit. But yeah, it just sit there and wait for the, you know keep looking at the bag, how much more is there to go (laughs), er read a magazine, chat to my wife, no it was fine.
Right and were you just in there for the one-day then, in hospital?
This was an out-patient, it was really just roll up in the morning, say they're acutely pumping the chemotherapy drug through, it took about an hour, and then may be sort of 15 minutes either side or so for setting up and taking down so it was fairly brief, just done as an out-patient.