Conditions that threaten women’s lives in childbirth & pregnancy
Father's/partner's emotional recovery
Sally found the fear and trauma of nearly losing her partner overshadowed what should have been a happy moment and affected how she was able to bond with her daughter at first.
Sally found the fear and trauma of nearly losing her partner overshadowed what should have been a happy moment and affected how she was able to bond with her daughter at first.
James and his partner relocated shortly after birth, so they had to focus on moving and starting new jobs. He doesn't think about it daily, but emotionally 'there is still some stuff to deal with at some point'.
James and his partner relocated shortly after birth, so they had to focus on moving and starting new jobs. He doesn't think about it daily, but emotionally 'there is still some stuff to deal with at some point'.
Mark feels he is 'a pretty strong guy', but that other men could have been very affected by watching his wife's emergency.
Mark feels he is 'a pretty strong guy', but that other men could have been very affected by watching his wife's emergency.
Craig was not able to sleep for 2 ½ weeks after his twins’ birth, haunted by flashbacks. He was grateful for a meeting with the surgeon who explained what went wrong in 'layman's terms'.
Craig was not able to sleep for 2 ½ weeks after his twins’ birth, haunted by flashbacks. He was grateful for a meeting with the surgeon who explained what went wrong in 'layman's terms'.
Dean still has intense flashbacks to his wife's emergency. He has never had counselling, but would like some help to get rid of the flashbacks.
Dean still has intense flashbacks to his wife's emergency. He has never had counselling, but would like some help to get rid of the flashbacks.
Tom found the stress of his wife's pulmonary embolism and haemorrhage and what happened after led to a nervous breakdown.
Tom found the stress of his wife's pulmonary embolism and haemorrhage and what happened after led to a nervous breakdown.
Tom' Sure I basically after sort of emergency situation during the birth, the, one of the midwives in hospital said to me, “Are you okay?” That’s obviously quite traumatic. What do you say when you’re sat there holding a baby and you know, you just go, “Look I’m fine.” And get on with what you’re doing. And that was that really. And I think that to be honest it was probably around that Christmas time my Mum and Dad move into their house, and you know, they were just up to their eyeballs and like that created a bit of conflict to be honest, which it shouldn’t really have done. But the… I basically one way or other, had a nervous breakdown in February or March last year and I had to have three and a half weeks away from work. Yes, I was sort of very anxious about well whatever you care to mention having an imagination made it even worse.
Sarah describes how her emergency impacted on her husband. He felt a lot of guilt and did not cope well.
Sarah describes how her emergency impacted on her husband. He felt a lot of guilt and did not cope well.
Mike and his wife reflected on how hard it is for men to find someone to talk to about their emotions after the emergency, and the loss of a child.
Mike and his wife reflected on how hard it is for men to find someone to talk to about their emotions after the emergency, and the loss of a child.
Last reviewed April 2016.
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