Interview 07
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Explains that he noticed that one of his testicles was bigger than the other.
Explains that he noticed that one of his testicles was bigger than the other.
Explains that he delayed seeking help because of lack of time and embarrassment.
Explains that he delayed seeking help because of lack of time and embarrassment.
Remembers that his doctor talked to him for a couple of hours about different treatment options Remembers that his doctor talked to him for a couple of hours about different treatment options and different types of tumour.
Remembers that his doctor talked to him for a couple of hours about different treatment options Remembers that his doctor talked to him for a couple of hours about different treatment options and different types of tumour.
I mean I was basically, as I say he explained things very thoroughly and I probably was talking to him for a couple of hours.
Really.
And then as I say literally a couple of hours after that I was being prepared for the operation. I obviously had time to call my family and tell them what the situation was but I think they were prepared for that anyway. We all knew that there was some problem there which needed sorting out, so that wasn't too difficult.
So he talked to you for a couple of hours, what did he go through in those couple of hours?
Yes well all these things about the options that were open to me, what types of problem it could be. There's the, I mean I'm not an expert on it either but I think the most common tumour is a seminoma which is perfectly curable if caught at an early stage and he explained, he went through basically how that occurs and how it's treated. And then he went through the other more aggressive types of tumour that it could be and he explained that there could be more difficulty with those if it turned out to be something like that.
Recalls his concern when wasn't offered sperm storage before radiotherapy, and relief he felt when his wife had a baby.
Recalls his concern when wasn't offered sperm storage before radiotherapy, and relief he felt when his wife had a baby.
It's uncomfortable but long term hasn't been a problem at all. And even in terms of, one thing which was concerning us is the question of fertility, and a lot of the literature you read talks about perhaps storing some sperm before you have any treatment done. That option wasn't actually given to me at all because the consultant felt that it wasn't necessary and that was a bit worrying in the back of my mind for some time after that that perhaps there could have been some sort of side-effect. I think sometimes the radiotherapy can have the effect of reducing fertility or destroying it altogether. So that was a bit worrying for myself and my wife because we had planned to have another child.
Mm but you did ask the consultant about it, did you?
Yes I asked him on a number of occasions and he was fairly confident that, I mean he couldn't guarantee it 100% but he was fairly confident that it wouldn't be a problem. And it turned out not to be a problem in the end because I was actually, we had a young daughter 7 weeks ago.
Recalls that the doctor said that he didn't think a false testicle was necessary and that it might lead to infection.
Recalls that the doctor said that he didn't think a false testicle was necessary and that it might lead to infection.
At that stage did he [the doctor] discuss whether or not he might replace it with a false one, a prosthesis?
He did. I asked him that point and he, he was of the opinion that it wasn't actually necessary and actually can cause some complications in certain, I mean there's always a risk of infection and things like that. So he actually advised me against it unless I particularly wanted that and I took his advice on that point. I mean I don't think, I don't think it's particularly necessary unless you're some sort of nude model or something like that (laughs). I mean there are a limited number of people that are going to see, and at the end of the day if you're just glancing it doesn't actually look different to what it did before.
Right, that is something that other young men might want to know?
Mm
If they were perhaps in the rugby showers and everything, it's not too obvious then that you've only got one?
No, no, unless someone is studying in a lot of detail, but I mean that doesn't happen I think in normal day to day life.
Points out that people who have had cancer may find it hard to get life insurance.
Points out that people who have had cancer may find it hard to get life insurance.
Yeah I think one thing that quite often is overlooked by people is the effect it has on your life insurance premiums, if you take out any new life insurance, which quite often you need to do. I needed to do. For instance when I bought a new house; the insurance companies will heavily weight the premiums for a certain length of time after an operation of that type. Because I suppose they just see the word 'cancer' and it's dealt with in exactly the same way whether it's perfectly clear or if you've still got a problem. So that's a potential financial set back. And yeah I mean that will, I think that will last. I've talked to a number of brokers about it, trying to get some idea of how long that will go on for and I think that lasts for 5 years after the operation and then they will then reconsider. But by that time obviously you're 5 years older so the insurance is more expensive anyway.