Stroke
What's important in care
After a stroke people are seen by a number of health care staff including hospital doctors, GPs, nurses and therapy staff (physiotherapists, occupational therapists, speech and language therapists, dieticians and psychologists). Some people felt that they had received excellent all round care whilst others commented either positively or negatively on particular aspects of care that they thought important.
Some people commented on what they thought was good or poor quality medical care from general practitioners. For example, one person commented favourably that his GP had ensured he had good access to psychological support to help manage depression after their stroke whilst another commented unfavourably on a GP who would not come out to see them on the night they had their stroke so they called an ambulance and subsequently changed GP. A few were surprised that their GP was not more involved in their care after leaving hospital.
Being treated as a person
Most comments were on personal aspects of care. Many people talked about the importance of being recognised and treated as a person rather than a patient or 'stroke victim'. It was important to be treated as an individual as each stroke is different with different symptoms and consequences.
Malcolm says, "I've had a stroke but I'm not stupid."
Malcolm says, "I've had a stroke but I'm not stupid."
Some felt their care had been excellent and that every effort had been made to make them feel cared for as an individual. One woman said she felt like a VIP.
Felt that she was shown great kindness in hospital and treated like a VIP.
Felt that she was shown great kindness in hospital and treated like a VIP.
Others, however, felt their care had been impersonal and had sometimes been judgemental or lacking in dignity. One young woman who was a very active fitness instructor and mother of two described how she felt when the consultant repeatedly asked her if she had taken drugs. She had, however, also experienced what she felt was excellent, warm, human care.
Felt judged and blamed and that she wasn't treated as a person because she was young to have had...
Felt judged and blamed and that she wasn't treated as a person because she was young to have had...
I don't know whether it was deliberate I probably was very sensitive but it felt like that and I felt like saying, 'This isn't fair, you know, I shouldn't, I shouldn't be here' and I'm sure everybody in that stroke ward felt exactly the same, you know, we shouldn't be here but you go to bed one night in your nice little house with your lovely life and your little family and there's a future and then, you know, you go to bed the next night in a hospital bed in a, you know, a paper nighty and you've got to wee into a kidney dish laid on your back and you think, 'Hey, what are you doing up there? Why, why are you punishing me?' sort of thing. But I'm sure it's something that everybody feels angry about.
One particular nurse in a specialist neurology unit I was at had had, he was the first nurse that came to see me when I went into the unit and he was absolutely wonderful. He told me he'd had encephalitis which is it water or swelling of the brain and he'd been really poorly and he'd been very lucky to survive it and because of his particular obviously what he lived through his particular life, he'd gone into nursing and he'd obviously specialised in brain and neuro surgery and he knew what it felt like to be in there and he came over and he, on New Year's Eve, we were there and we all celebrated in our own way and, you know, he came over and gave me a cuddle and said, 'You know, next New Year, you won't be here' [laughter], you know, and it was just a really bonding enriching experience because there are so many wonderful people who go into nursing and doc, and doctors and consultants who really genuinely do help and do make it easier and there are those who obvious
People said that the best way to make them feel that they were treated as a person was to talk to them and share some interaction. One man whose ancestry was Indian said that nurses made assumptions about him based on cultural identity and that they assumed he could not speak English. He went on to say that he thought simple interaction would help nurse and patient build up a relationship. Another man felt that he had experienced terrible nursing care in hospital and contrasted this with kind, personal care he received from therapists. He advised health professionals working with people who have had a stroke to make time to talk as people.
Felt that nurses made assumptions about him without knowing who he is or what his background is....
Felt that nurses made assumptions about him without knowing who he is or what his background is....
Second day, the physiotherapist and they had a very strict, restricted schedule like in a 10 minutes to a patient or 15 minutes to a patient. That, to me, is not, the moment you are told and the nurse will look at the watch, you feel disheartened, you know. I think that she is, she is not interested in me. That is also one of my observations where I do, don't find it. Yes, there are good nurses where they will relax and first they will find out whether, are you feeling thirsty, are you feeling tired, do you need your stick in with you, do you, you didn't forget your purse and your raincoat. Very simple things. The moment you talk about these things, you build up a relationship with the person you are talking to, that you are going to do, you care about it, the rest, everything easy. After that, you know, whatever you do, it will be very easily accepted.
Contrasted the kind, personal, care he received from therapy staff with that from nursing staff...
Contrasted the kind, personal, care he received from therapy staff with that from nursing staff...
The one thing in particular because I can remember I had gone to the bathroom and used the toilet which I managed on my own but what I couldn't do was do my trousers back up again afterwards. I couldn't button up, so I just had to leave my trousers undone for the morning and actually went over and asked the physiotherapist in the other department and she said, 'Yeah, of course I'll help you' and asked me why I hadn't asked anyone else and I said and she said, 'Oh that's dreadful', I said, 'Yes, that's not a very good reflection, is it on how unapproachable the staff are that I won't even ask any of them for help'. I'd rather go around just with just a pillow put it on my lap so I'm not flashing rather than ask for help to do my trousers up. But she said, 'Well, any time you're stuck like that, just come over, you know where the department is, you've got your chair, anything, just pop over, I don't mind doing it'.
But it's just being approachable enough I would say for health care professionals, that people actually feel that because sometimes it's very difficult to ask for very personal help if it's something you're not used to asking for, even though it's something you obviously need. It's difficult to actually ask for it. Well, I certainly found it so and so did other people who I was on the ward with, other patients. They didn't like asking for their help, that was very difficult and perhaps they shouldn't have to ask, perhaps the health care professionals should be understanding enough and trained enough to know that they need to be offering that help not having to wait to be asked all the time. And just sit down and see people as people, not just as stroke victims or stroke survivors which are not terms I particularly like, I've got to be honest... Because I don't feel like I'm a survivor of a stroke, I feel I'm struggling, I'm struggling with the stroke but I don't think I want to be called a struggler either. Just a person. I think sometimes a person is not seen.
Small things matter
Some individuals talked about meaningful memories in care, including a caring nurse who took the time to chat, a health provider who would sit down and have a cup of tea, or a friendly dog visitor in the hospital. These small things made a huge difference during time in hospital which can be frightening, overwhelming and frustrating. Some individuals commented on what it is like when these small matters are not attended to, and how it negatively affects their experience.
Stella's daughter comments on the lack of attention to small matters (including dressing and...
Stella's daughter comments on the lack of attention to small matters (including dressing and...
Deborah: We were, so we went from the [main hospital] to [the community hospital], that was in November and Mum was there November and December. Not brilliant. I had to go back [home] because of work, so there was just no choice of me staying here, and unfortunately the care was dropped off a bit. They tried their hardest, they’re a small community hospital, but I mean for example that one day when they - Mum has always been a person that wears trousers. She’s not one of those ladies that wears skirts, but it was more convenient for them for Mum to wear a skirt for toilet purposes. And Mum doesn’t have very many skirts. Well, we brought in as many skirts as we could, but there was one day when we came in and they’d put Mum in this crimplene dress which was too small for her. And I was livid, wasn’t I? “What the hell have you got on?”
Stella: You just went puce.
Deborah: And so I felt that there wasn’t enough care and consideration in what they were dressing Mum in, but it was because it was more convenient for them, and it wasn’t what Mum would have worn, whereas here Mum gets the choice and Mum will pick out what she wants to wear, and they don’t worry about Mum wearing trousers. Mum likes to wear trousers. Whereas in the community hospital they didn’t want to deal with the trousers, and I was not happy that day when we went in. I think they did try.
Was there any expectation, I mean when she, when you went there, were they thinking that you’d go home at the end, or was it just a sort of a, like a holding station until you...........
Stella: I think it was a holding place, yes.
Deborah: The doctors had already told us that Mum would be unable to go home. One of the main problems, I mean we could have got a chair put on the stairs and things like that, but the problems with having carers at home we could have done [during] the day but obviously there would have been a large part of the night when Mum wouldn’t have had anybody in the house, which was definitely out because Mum does need 24-hour care, don’t you, and you know that.
Stella: I think so yes.
Deborah: Sometimes Mum at night needs reassurance that there are people around, and here they are aware of this so they do pop in or they just.................
Stella: They do look to see that you’re still alive.
Deborah: Yes. You just like to have reassurance that there’s people around, don’t you?
Stella: I just do, yes.
Deborah: And it gives you peace of mind if someone comes in. And sometimes Mum feels lonely being here in the room so some of the carers will sit with Mum and have a cup of tea and read.
Stella: One came and had a cup of tea with me the other day.
Deborah: Yes.
Stella: Before she went home.
Deborah: Yes, and some of the carers, one of the male carers will sit and read to Mum as well.
Stella: He’s an old fellow.
Deborah: Yes. Because I mean reading was one of Mum’s joys I mean always reading books.
Stella: I’m a great poetry lover.
A person, with communication difficulties due to aphasia, felt that the speech and language therapist was rude and not interested in her as a person, which she thought was very bad care.
Person with aphasia felt that the speech and language therapist was rude and did not care about...
Person with aphasia felt that the speech and language therapist was rude and did not care about...
Emotions and being believed
One of the things people said they did not like was when their emotional response to having a stroke - feeling upset and crying - was dismissed. One person was upset and crying when she was in hospital, however, she was outraged when the nurse said to her that she had no reason to cry and should stop because there were a lot of people worse off than her. Another person felt that it was wrong when she had told the occupational therapist that she was depressed by not being able to do things but the therapist, whose husband had been diagnosed with a serious illness, asked how she thought her husband felt and that she had better pull herself together.
Told the occupational therapist that she was feeling depressed by not being able to do things and...
Told the occupational therapist that she was feeling depressed by not being able to do things and...
People also responded strongly to feeling that they were not believed or felt challenged by a healthcare professional. One person described how her GP had challenged whether she was taking the correct medication, disagreeing with the medication prescribed by the hospital consultant. Even though she said that she argued with him and that he eventually agreed, she said it made her feel vulnerable and advised others to have someone accompanying them to the GP.
She lacked confidence when her GP tried to change her medication even though she had been told...
She lacked confidence when her GP tried to change her medication even though she had been told...
What I'd say if for anybody that's had a stroke, if they feel that their confidence is down a wee bit to take somebody with them when they go to their GP though. Because, it's good to have an advocate with you. You know, because I was getting a point over but I was getting upset at the time too and you know that that's the last thing that you need.
Another person lost faith in her neurologist because he didn't believe that she felt completely numb on one side and she decided not to see him again.
Being able to ask questions and decision making
One of the things that people said was good about care was being given information about what was happening and being able to ask questions.
Felt that one of the good things about care was being able to ask questions.
Felt that one of the good things about care was being able to ask questions.
Another woman's consultant recommended that she have carotid artery surgery to help prevent further TIAs and stroke and she felt completely involved in all of the decisions, which she appreciated. However, a wife whose husband had been left very disabled by his stroke, wanted to care for him at home and felt completely unsupported in her decision, which left her feeling vulnerable and isolated.
Felt would have liked someone to talk to because felt very unsupported in their decision for the...
Felt would have liked someone to talk to because felt very unsupported in their decision for the...
Wife' Well, somebody to speak to, you know, if the likes of somebody taking a stroke like what [my husband] had and right enough we, the website wouldn't be any good to us because we don't have a computer, we don't know how to work one but even just to talk to somebody with, in a similar '
Husband' Circumstances.
Wife' 'circumstances, you know, and how they got on because, I mean, all I got told in that rehabilitation hospital was to put [my husband] in a home every day. They even got a psychiatrist. One day I went down and this psychiatrist, he, they'd call him in. He spoke to me for about an hour, an hour and a half trying to talk me into putting [my husband] in a home as well and I said, well, I used to come out in tears every day from that hospital, I was always crying because, I mean, if I'd been about 80 and [my husband] had been 80, OK [laughs] I would have known that I wouldn't have been able to look after him but [my husband] was only 66 and I must have just been about 64, 65 when he took the stroke so I felt I would be able to look after him, you know, and I have.
A young woman with stroke felt that health staff did not communicate well with her at all whilst in hospital which had a negative impact on her recovery.
Michelle felt that staff did not explain what was happening to her.
Michelle felt that staff did not explain what was happening to her.
Good care for people with communication difficulties
How problems with communication were dealt with by health professionals varied. Some people felt that staff were well trained and made every effort to understand and communicate with them. Others felt that they were not given enough time or that the health professionals made no effort to try to understand them. One man felt that the speech and language therapist just could not find a way to communicate with him which made him feel rotten. Another felt that the care he received in hospital was good because the doctors and nurses encouraged him to take his time when trying to say something.
He felt the speech therapists gave up on him because they couldn't make out what he was saying...
He felt the speech therapists gave up on him because they couldn't make out what he was saying...
Oh no, they didn't, they didn't but... they tried right enough but I couldn't say them but I think now I think I could, right enough, could go back and say them now if I wanted.
But what happened at the time?
They couldn't, they couldn't make us out what I was saying, so that was, that was just thrown aside.
You couldn't make them understand what you wanted?
That's right, yeah. I couldn't.
And was that difficult? How did that make you feel?
I, it didn't help me anyway but... and it was just no being able to let, explain to them right. I haven't, I haven't explain things to them but they explain things to me and I couldn't answer them.
How did that make you feel?
It made us feel rotten all together. I couldn't get, do nothing about it really.
Was that generally with health professionals or was it just the speech therapists?
It was the speech therapist. Aye.
Felt that despite his aphasia communication with hospital staff was good because they encouraged him to take his time.
Felt that despite his aphasia communication with hospital staff was good because they encouraged him to take his time.
Thinking about while you were in the hospital, how did you find the communication with the doctors and nurses? Was it always good?
Well, yeah, they take their time to, I have to talk, the nurse or the doctor says 'Take your time' They were good.
Mm hmm. Have you had any bad experiences at all?
What?
With talking to the doctors and nurses?
Oh no, no, no.
Better management of medication
Some individuals were not clear about why they were taking certain medications, what the side effects were, and how they should be taken (time of day, with meals,etc). Some were wondering if a recent change in medication played a role in causing their stroke. Others felt that they should have been taking medications sooner to address health issues such as high blood pressure. One woman suggests that individuals should regularly request to have their blood pressure monitored and double check existing medication types and dosages with their doctors to avoid future problems.
Susan questioned her doctor about her medication leading to a change in dosage.
Susan questioned her doctor about her medication leading to a change in dosage.
Last reviewed June 2017.
Last updated August 2013
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