James - Interview 16
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Having problems passing urine James paid to see a consultant who performed a circumcision. Post operatively he noticed a sore patch on his penis for which he was treated topically. For a year he went for monthly check-ups and the creams seemed to be having no effect. He began to think that the check-ups were a waste of time so he missed an appointment - and was not offered another. When he ran out of cream he went to his GP who continued to prescribe it for a further twelve months. When James developed a urinary infection he went to a locum GP who prescribed antibiotics and after seeing the sore area referred him to a local hospital.
The hospital took a biopsy which confirmed a diagnosis of cancer. James was referred on to a Specialist Penile Cancer Centre where he was given the option of undergoing a course of radiotherapy or having the tissue surgically removed. He opted for surgical removal, left everything to the surgeon and just wanted everything to happen as quickly as possible. James said his coping strategy was to “blank my mind to things.” He had previously suffered from bowel cancer and found his experience of penile cancer to be much less traumatic.
Throughout this time James received help and support from his wife, sons and daughters. He chose not to tell anyone outside of the family about his condition. His surgery has affected both his urinary and sexual function, and although he hasn’t noticed any changes to his confidence or self-esteem he does suffer from bouts of anger.
James is currently being seen at the hospital every three months for check-ups and although has needed no additional medical or emotional support is comforted to know that such help is only a phone call away.