Interview 46
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She didn't do the Faecal Occult Blood test immediately because she thought it would be 'a little bit messy'.
She didn't do the Faecal Occult Blood test immediately because she thought it would be 'a little bit messy'.
And I think there was a time, you hadn't got to do it right away, you could leave it a few weeks, but it had got to be done within a certain time. And I thought well if every time I open the drawer, it's going to be at least once a day, I'm going to see it, and I thought, “Oh, I might as well do it. At least there's nothing wrong with my health”, never thinking, probably there might be something wrong. Because I hadn't had any symptoms at all. Nothing at all.
What put you off doing it?
Just because I thought it was a little bit messy.
That's what it was really. A little bit messy. But it was, because it was just the thought of the messing, just messing. Although you have babies, and you move whatever, sort of thing, you just think, “Oh I can't be bothered with this.” But I decided to do it, and in a way I'm glad I did, because they did say, [the nurse] said, in six months after we knew the results, in six months if I hadn't have done it, it could have been a lot worse. And I would have had to have had follow up treatment, so I think I've been very lucky actually.
When she was telephoned to make an appointment with the surgeon she realised something was wrong, even though she had not had her results yet. She was devastated to hear that she had cancer.
When she was telephoned to make an appointment with the surgeon she realised something was wrong, even though she had not had her results yet. She was devastated to hear that she had cancer.
And they removed the polyps. After I'd had half an hour's rest, the doctor came out to talk to my husband and myself, and he said, they sent, they've been sent to histology, and he didn't think there was anything to be concerned about. I'd got to go and see the girls again the week after for the results, but the night before I'd got to go I had a phone call asking if I was available for an appointment with the consultant, the week on the following Friday. I panicked a bit, and I said, 'I've already had my colonoscopy', and she said, 'I know you've had your colonoscopy, are you available for an appointment with the consultant a week on Friday?' So I looked at the calendar, yes, I could do that. And then I started really to panic, because I really knew then that something was the matter.
But anyhow the next day I went to see the girls, and they explained what they'd found. They'd found a cancer in one of the polyps. And'I was basically devastated. We got through that, went to see the consultant, and she was lovely, she really was. She didn't have to say, would you like me to do this, or would you like me to do, she just said what she was going to do, and what part of the bowel she was going to remove.
She was given an enema on the day of the operation to prepare the bowel for surgery.
She was given an enema on the day of the operation to prepare the bowel for surgery.
No, it was a week on the Friday.
Oh.
A week on the Friday.
Oh that's right, and she explained everything.
She explained everything, she told me what she was going to do.
Before the operation did you have to go through all the same preparation again, with the laxatives?
No they gave me an enema [laughs].
When you went into the hospital?
When I went in to have the operation they gave me an enema. Because I said to the, because they'd been calling other people in, to go down to theatre, I was the last, because she came in to see me, the consultant came to see you, and I said, 'Where am I on your list?' and she says, 'I'm afraid you're last.' I thought, 'Oh dear, I've got to sit here and watch everybody else go down.' She said, 'Because yours is going to be the longest operation,' she says, 'So we'll leave you till last.'
And, then they gave me an enema, and then when they came to fetch me, I said, 'I haven't had my pre-med.' And she said, 'Oh, you've had an enema, that'll do.'
So you didn't have to have any laxatives at home the night before, like you did with the colonoscopy.
No, no, no.
People who don't know what an enema is, do you mind explaining what an enema is.
It's a solution, I would think myself it's a salty solution that they pour into your bowel, and then its about 10 minutes, I think it'll, they advise you not to move far away from a toilet. Its not really unpleasant, it's just the fact that people are messing with your body parts all the while really. But'
Were you lying on the bed while they do this?
Lying on the bed, yes. And they just insert a tube up your back passage and just, it's in a bottle about that big.
And that makes you go to'
That makes you go to the toilet yeah.