Dave

In 2005 Dave had a severe spinal cord injury. He was aged 25. He had a urethral catheter for about three months. This was then changed to a suprapubic catheter, which Dave finds quite easy to manage. He changes it himself at home with the help of a carer.
Dave is a financial consultant. He is married. Ethnic background/nationality: White British.
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Dave describes what happened before he was catheterised in hospital. He's been paralysed from the neck down since his diving accident in Portugal.
Dave describes what happened before he was catheterised in hospital. He's been paralysed from the neck down since his diving accident in Portugal.
Dave realised he had a blockage when his urine wasn't draining properly. Another time he had autonomic dysreflexia and his catheter had to be changed very quickly.
Dave realised he had a blockage when his urine wasn't draining properly. Another time he had autonomic dysreflexia and his catheter had to be changed very quickly.
No, that was done at the bedside. After the insertion of the suprapubic catheter, I didn’t go back to a theatre for any changes or anything beyond that. It was always done at the bedside.
Dave describes how he looks after his catheter and catheter site. He occasionally uses a bladder washout. Early on, his catheter was changed if he had a blockage.
Dave describes how he looks after his catheter and catheter site. He occasionally uses a bladder washout. Early on, his catheter was changed if he had a blockage.
Dave washes around the catheter site every day with saline solution. He takes care not to pull the catheter.
Dave washes around the catheter site every day with saline solution. He takes care not to pull the catheter.
Yes, I have two straps that are round the leg bag itself and one that I put higher on my thigh to grip on to it.
Dave described what it was like to have a suprapubic catheter changed in hospital. He found it uncomfortable but 'not too bad'. An anaesthetic gel helped.
Dave described what it was like to have a suprapubic catheter changed in hospital. He found it uncomfortable but 'not too bad'. An anaesthetic gel helped.
Yes, it is uncomfortable when it’s changed. It’s not too bad. I find that helping the situation is to use a mildly anaesthetic based lubricant. Instillagel is what I use. You just use it round the site. It makes sure that it comes out a bit easier. When the new one goes in, it numbs around the area. So I certainly think that that helps and that’s what I do.
After Dave left hospital, the district nurse changed his catheter a couple of times. He then changed it himself with the help of a carer.
After Dave left hospital, the district nurse changed his catheter a couple of times. He then changed it himself with the help of a carer.
Yes. And I’m pretty particular about, you know, changing a catheter and what has to happen. I know exactly what I’m doing.
Dave says that having a disability can strain a relationship but that a difficult situation can strengthen a relationship too.
Dave says that having a disability can strain a relationship but that a difficult situation can strengthen a relationship too.
Dave describes the various benefits he gets and talks about the Direct Payments scheme. He also says that the money available from the NHS for a wheelchair is not enough.
Dave describes the various benefits he gets and talks about the Direct Payments scheme. He also says that the money available from the NHS for a wheelchair is not enough.
Yes. Which is why I approached Aspire, the charity which helped with some of the purchase of a wheelchair.
Initially Dave shared experiences with other patients. He was also greatly supported by his girlfriend, family, friends, the doctors and the nursing team.
Initially Dave shared experiences with other patients. He was also greatly supported by his girlfriend, family, friends, the doctors and the nursing team.
Obviously there were as well some of the medical professionals, the nursing team, who certainly helped. But I think the most help is from people that know you best probably. So that was for me what worked. I guess it’s different, different things for different people.